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I screen every new client I see in order to ensure both of our safety in the session. To do this, prior to booking, I ask for verifiable work information, such as either a LinkedIn profile with your photo, or a work ID with your name and photo, or a work website with your name and photo in the site, or a student ID badge showing your name and photo. For further verification purposes, I may request a clear photo of your valid state-issued ID with all information visible, including your full name and current address, to confirm that you are the same person associated with your workplace.

My screening process is intended to function like bank ID verification or airport security screening. In those situations, the party responsible for managing the greater risk sets the verification standards, without requiring the same level of disclosure in return. I view this process in a similar light and aim to apply it thoughtfully and respectfully.

This form of screening is standard in the tantra industry. It creates safety for all parties. At the same time, I understand not wanting to offer personal info about yourself to a stranger. It can be quite daunting to share that piece of you to someone you haven’t met yet. In a perfect world, us providers would never need to screen who we see, but there are more good reasons to screen than bad ones. Being safe so that I can continue to offer amazing, juicy, fulfilling tantra & massage sessions is important to me. Also, if the whole world can see your work info online, why can’t I? I am a top-notch professional when I work, and do not hold on to incriminating information about people. Privacy all ways around is key. And making sure that we don’t know each other in the real world is also a priority of mine, hence my extensive screening process beforehand. 🙂

I do not meet up in public as a form of screening. I would still need to look you up online to make sure your identity feels safe to me. It would be awkward to enter a coffee shop with my laptop, sit in front of you, and do a google image search to find out who you are. I also do not screen once you’re in my session space, as this would create an awkward situation similar to screening in public. All forms of screening are done in advance. If desired, you are welcome to have a phone chat with me to prove the legitimacy of who I am prior to being screened. And I do not do video calls of any kind. Hopefully this can work for you, and I’m greatly looking forward to meeting you and creating a safe, loving, tantra session together.

All of my online reviews are from clients who have followed my screening protocols. To proceed with my screening process, please fill out my Book Now form at

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I require a 20% deposit from all new clients that I see, unless the session is only for 1 hour or 90 minutes. If you become a regular, ongoing client of mine, then the deposit can be forgone. To proceed with booking, you may either use the following:

-Ven-m0

-C@shApp (it can be downloaded onto a smartphone)

-an Am@zon e-gift card (you would purchase an e-gift card online and send it to my email)

-a physical Am@zon gift card (purchased at a store and done by sending me the claim code on the back of the card)

All four versions are easy to use and are the only forms of deposits I take.

Many times I have heard the phrase “I was scammed, so I don’t do deposits” from people. It is an ongoing urban legend that a provider who asks for a deposit must be a scammer. It is important to do your homework on me if you feel concerned about the need for a deposit. If so, you will see that I have no negative reports, a fully valid website, top SEO placement for “Tantra San Francisco”, valid contact info, and I advertise on several other adult websites where I needed to verify my identity to advertise there.

It is true that indeed, there are people who create fake websites and ads and/or ask for money upfront on scraper sites (websites created by stealing ads from other providers and pasting them without consent). But this has nothing to do with the tantra providers themselves. Many people need to cancel last minute or simply do not show up during their appointment time. This becomes stressful to accommodate. Hotels and other businesses ask for deposits or credit cards to secure a customer’s spot. This is common in the service industry.

It is a myth that providers who ask for deposits are scammers. I have heard from some gents that they’ve been scammed before so they won’t do deposits, and this makes me sad. This story is most likely fabricated simply because that person doesn’t want to pay a deposit. If my sincere explanation of why this is important to me, along with my honesty about this being a legitimate service doesn’t work for you, then we are not a match for seeing each other.

Also, not to play the devil’s advocate, but when scheduling a session with me, you will be bringing a large offering with you. A 20% deposit is small potatoes compared to the total cost of the session. People who are serious about their business (like myself) would rather have a busy schedule and create a fabulous experience for both of us than steal a 20% deposit and be out of integrity.

If desired, you are welcome to have a phone chat with me to prove the legitimacy of who I am. I do not do video calls or meet in person. A phone call is how I connect before the session. Also, sending a deposit ensures that you can bring less physical cash to the session, so it’s a win-win all around. And I feel a lot more juicy and relaxed overall when a person can trust me from the get-go. Hopefully this all makes sense, and thank you for reading!

* Cancellations made within 24 hours of the scheduled appointment time will require the remaining payment for the session at the time you canceled. This payment can be applied to the cost when you rebook your session for the future.

Blessings and love!