FAQ

Welcome to my “Frequently Asked Questions” page. This page is for the Gentlemen’s services. Here you will find answers to some commonly asked questions. In the future, I will be making FAQ pages for my other services. Enjoy!

A tantra session will give you an opportunity to dive deep into your own body’s sensations. You will receive the utmost love and care from a highly trained provider. As a man, you might have been conditioned to believe that your role is to be the giver. And that a woman’s body is yours for gratification, and the idea that there is more pleasure just from receiving is foreign to you. That’s where tantra comes in. How can you know what a woman is experiencing during lovemaking if you’ve never received from her perspective? You might only know how she is reacting to you, versus how she is really feeling. A tantra session gives you the opportunity to experience touch from a woman’s perspective, bridging the gap between the masculine and the feminine.

A tantra session and an erotic massage can overlap in some ways, but they are not the same. While an erotic massage focuses on bodywork with sensual touch, a tantra session can include any of the following:

* a chakra meditation to open up your breathing and visualization channels

* learning prolonging and sustaining sensual techniques that can assist you in the bedroom

* coaching styles to help you in your relationships like the erotic blueprint and the wheel of consent

* the use of various sensual tools and more are all a part of this wonderful experience.

There is no need to “do”, no need to “give”, just let go and surrender into your own being. Enjoy!

Thank you for asking! Any session you’d like is perfect. All of my sessions are carefully crafted and I give my 100% to each one. I like Positively Playful myself since I can offer the most of my creativity with those sessions. Thank you for taking the plunge, and I’m looking forward to seeing you!
The main difference is Relaxing Rapture does not include any of my signature tantra techniques, is mostly a therapeutic massage, and is less of a sensual experience. Ecstatic Euphoria is a mixture of massage and basic tantra, and Positively Playful (especially a 90 minute or 2 hour) includes all of my wonderful tantric practices, massage, stamina control, chakra meditation, breathwork, sacred spot, edging, plus the use of my pain-free, penetration-free, delicious feeling sensory toys. Whichever session you choose will be perfect. 🙂
I’m free 10am-9pm and my hours may change from day to day. I also require same day appointments to be made by 7pm.

My rates are in the Locations & Rates page of this website. Please scroll down that page to see the rates and descriptions of my fabulous sessions.

My rates are in the Locations & Rates page of this website. Please scroll down that page to see the rates and descriptions of my fabulous sessions.

My North Berkeley location is in a beautifully decorated place just 15 minutes north of town. There is ample street parking with no meters or street cleaning. The BART is 1/2 mile away, making it easily accessible for all.

My San Francisco location is in a lovely studio in the Potrero Hill neighborhood & is very upscale & private. It has easy, non-metered parking, & is close to both the 101 & 280 freeways. I am there alternating Wednesdays and Thursdays with advance bookings only.

My Nashville session space is located in a beautiful country home 15 minutes SW of downtown Nashville. It is clean, nicely decorated, very safe street parking, and a glorious bathtub.

My Boston location is in a sweet, quiet apartment in the town of Waltham. It is a 1/2 an hour west of Boston and is in a luxury apartment in a quiet area.

In each location, I offer many amenities for you to use. For instance, I have a hot shower available for both before and after the session, body wash, mouthwash, combs, breathmints, cough drops, and hand sanitizer. As a result, you will feel very pampered during your time with me.

I do not offer outcalls since everything I need to offer you a spectacular session is already in my locations, ready to go. Looking forward to meeting you soon!

Yes, you will be offered a shower both before and after the session at my place. It is included in the time you will be spending with me. I will have fresh towels, wash cloths, organic shampoo, conditioner, soap, and body wash available to you as well. I like people’s bodies to feel warm and relaxed right before I begin my session. Therefore, even if you showered prior to seeing me, I’ll still ask you to take another shower at my place. 🙂
I like to feel safe and connected to you prior to the session. Knowing your real world identity beforehand helps me decide if we are a good match. I never keep, store, or judge anyone’s personal info, this is just to ensure our compatibility together. Therefore, I ask everyone to fill out my carefully designed Book Now form. It only takes a minute to do, and helps me craft a session that is catered to your liking.
Hi there, thanks for asking. I work on a table since it’s better for my back, plus it gives me more support for the style of bodywork I offer.
Thank you for bringing this up. As a woman about to spend time alone with a man I’ve never met, proper screening helps me feel comfortable and safe. Whether it’s through your work information, ID, or something similar, this process ensures a sense of security. When I feel at ease knowing you, we can both enjoy a truly wonderful experience together. It’s important that who you are in the real world feels like a good fit for me, considering factors such as your career, past, and any potential mutual connections. I do not use your information for anything other than ensuring we’re a good match. Please trust that this process will keep us both safe and comfortable with each other. Thank you.
Thank you for your inquiry. I am open to a phone conversation prior to us meeting, but I do not do Facetime, or send photos of myself, or offer any form of video call prior to seeing my clients. Nor do I leave my studio to meet in person before the session. Please trust that you will have the kind of session you desire based on my screening availability as it is.
Thanks for asking, but I do not send out photos of myself for my own safety and security. You will have to trust that I am the same person in the photo as the person meeting you at the door. Most people in this industry glamorizes their photos a bit for the sake of marketing, but never in my entire career have I used a photo of another person instead of myself in either my ads or website. I recently had the opportunity to get new photos taken by a highly acclaimed and sought-after photographer. I hope you enjoy my new stunning images!
Thank you for asking, but when you arrive to the session, I ask for cash only.
Many businesses ask for some sort of deposit in order to hold your reservation. I ask for a 20% non-refundable deposit to do this for my 2 hour and 2.5 hour sessions. This amount is taken out of the total amount for the session. The form of deposits I take are either through V3nmo, Ca$hApp, or an Am@zon gift card that can be purchased online or in a store.
Thanks, I get asked that a lot. First off, I want to make sure that when you arrive, I am prepped and ready to greet you versus say being in the shower, answering a phone call, cleaning up the room for a previous session that might have ran late, etc. And just in case someone cancels without communicating, they do not have my actual address. Discretion is important to me. 🙂
Many people have a misconception as to what Nuru is. Nuru is a Japanese massage technique that is done in a wet spa. Instead of using oil, a very slippery massage gel that is made from seaweed is applied. There are no safety perimeters between the provider and client’s body. A hose is used afterwards to wash down the table, and the whole service is very messy. This is commonly offered in Asian massage parlors. I don’t have a wet spa to offer this service. So the answer is no, I do not offer Nuru. But what I do offer is wonderful and will keep you coming back for more. 🙂
I require at least one hour’s notice or more to book with me in Boston or Nashville, 6 hours or more to book with me in North Berkeley or San Francisco. If you can do that, then we’re good to go. 🙂
In order to have the best experience possible, the only talking that is preferred is when I’m guiding you through a particular experience. It is difficult for me to talk and work at the same time. Therefore, I ask that we stay focused on breathing and other aspects of the session. We can save the talking for when the session is over.
Thank you for asking. I do not drink alcohol, and ask that you stay fully clear of any intoxicants in order to receive the full benefits of my sessions.
I wear whatever my body feels comfortable in. It changes from time to time depending on the session. I prefer not to share any more info than that. I do not take outfit requests, as everyone has been happy with how I present myself. Thank you.
Thanks, I get asked this question a lot. In Tantra, it is important that you are receiving the gifts I am offering. Many people believe that in order to feel pleasure, they need to be giving pleasure. That can be very rewarding and self validating. But it is not the core essence of how to receive a tantric experience. How can a person know what their lover is feeling if they don’t give themselves permission to receive in a similar way? I ask that you trust that you’re in good hands, and that what I offer will be plenty of pleasure for both of us. So the answer is no. The best way to give to me is to take immense joy in what I am already offering you. 🙂
Thank you for asking. All of my services involve being in person with each other. I know during times like these, safety is important. I make sure every session is done in as conscious & safe a way as possible. So seeing you in the flesh is how it continues to be. Blessings!
Thank you, I do not. This means nothing that involves pain or stresses my body out to give you. I also do not use rope or anything to tie people up.
Hi there, thank you for asking. To me, being submissive means being relaxed, non-verbal, and are able to receive the sessions I am offering. If this feels aligned for you, than you are free to be as submissive as you would like. 🙂
Thank you for asking. In Tantra, it is important that you are receiving the gifts I am offering. When a person has an agenda around what they’d like to do, including fixating on a person’s body parts, it puts them into their head rather than in their body. And it takes away from the overall tantric experience. So the answer is no. It is best for you to allow me to lead. I excel at sharing my knowledge and love in the work I am trained in.
Thank you for asking. I receive inquiries about this a lot. All of my personal info has already been shared with the web owners of the ad you found me on. This is to ensure I am a real person, the same person who is in the ad, am of adult age, work independently, and do not have a criminal record of any kind. I hope this can work for you!
Thanks for asking, but the rates for each city need to stay as is. I pay expensive travel fees, ads, rental spaces, and the like when I leave the Berkeley area. I appreciate seeing people who are comfortable paying for what I advertise. 🙂
Thank you for asking. I love to greet all my clients with a smile and a big hug, and close out my sessions similarly. I am open to a bit of extra connection during the session provided it comes from a very relaxed place, without an agenda, and it is an extra addition and not the main focus. For tantra to be experienced fully, it is important to go with the flow with what I am offering rather than try to incite a particular experience. Thank you for understanding!
You are welcome to ask me whatever questions you’d like. But please make sure they are not objectifying or imply an illicit service, as I do not offer those. If you need some sort of verbal agreement for a specific act or experience, then I may not be the right practitioner for you. If you are able to let go of some pre-rehearsed destination experience, then you can truly invite a tantric practice of being present with what is versus what you have in your head. So please relax, trust, and let go. You are in good hands with me. 🙂
Thanks for asking. I remain inside the building/house/apartment and greet you when you come to the door. I do not go to the parking lot, or meet people at their car, or bus stop, etc. Hope this can work for you!
Thanks for asking! A platter of fresh fruit is included at the end of a 2.5-hour Positively Playful session. Enjoying fresh, organic, seasonal fruit is a wonderful way to conclude a longer tantra session together. This helps ground your body before you return to the default world. This service is exclusively included with the 2.5-hour Positively Playful experience. Looking forward to sharing this with you soon!
Not at all. I provide everything we will be using during the session. Please bring your completely unscented, sober self, as well as cash payment. Looking forward to meeting you soon!
Thank you for asking! I appreciate grounding touch that feels connective rather than arousing or objectifying. Since I move around a lot while I work, timing is important when it comes to touch. I prefer being the one to initiate all intimate experiences together. At the end of the session, I enjoy sitting on the table with my clients’ hands holding my lower legs for support. I kindly ask that touch remain below the knees during that time, as anything higher can be distracting and take away from the skills I’m offering. Trust me, honoring these boundaries will only enhance our connection and the experiences we share together!
Yes I do! A person can resolve P.E. by staying relaxed, staying connected to their body, and taking time to enjoy each moment of intimacy instead of feeling rushed or pressured to perform. Avoiding pornography and exploring alternative antidepressants with a healthcare provider can often improve E.D. Either way, I am happy to see you and work with you on these issues. 🙂

Hi! Thanks for inquiring about this. Many people would like to build an ongoing connection with me outside of when we see each other in person. I totally understand the desire to form a bond both before and after our session occurs. Unfortunately, my time is quite precious to me, and I really need to keep my connections with my clients strictly to in-person sessions. If a person wished to offer financial compensation to converse with me outside of the session time, I would be open to that. Otherwise, let’s keep the chitchat for when we see each other in person. Thank you so much for understanding!

Thanks for asking! Since shower stalls are only so big, it would be hard for us to avoid touching each other while showering together. I don’t allow mutual touching during the session, so the answer is no, I don’t take showers with my clients. You will be showering on your own both before and after the session. 🙂