Thank you for asking. In Tantra, it is important that you are receiving the gifts I am offering. When a person has an agenda around what they’d like to do, including fixating on a person’s body parts, it puts them into their head rather than in their body. And it takes away from the overall tantric experience. So the answer is no. It is best for you to allow me to lead. I excel at sharing my knowledge and love in the work I am trained in.